We always advise people to learn to be contented and to gain the moderation from things we do. These seems to be religious saying or moral and ethics modules.
How many of us actually know, aware and practise the contented behaviour?
How many of us try to learn to be contented but failed?
How many of us advises others to be contented but is do not feel contented with his own life?
There'll not be a definite answers for the questions above because people changes everyday.
I'm wondering that will the main cause for people changing everyday is because of our earth is orbiting or because the moon is orbiting the earth, thus there're some force that make people changes over in a day.
The basic necessities of life: food, air, water. As long as we have these three elements we can live for the entire life of us. But in my opinion, I should not forget another very important element which is 'SMILE'. A smile can make your day delighted and energetic. We should not forget the ability to smile because smile is the energy for us to face challenges of the day.
As long as we own these four necessities, we can be contented with our life. Learn to be contented then life would be easier and less stressful. Setting up achievable, short term goal can motivate and enrich days. You might feel a little bit sad and frustrated when there's envy towards others' life, glory, beauty and etc. But when you tell yourself, "I have my own strength, too. I'm also special and custom made by God". Then you are able to be contented with what you own and who you are.
Give yourself a smile and convince yourself, "There's nothing in this world can defeat me because I'm contented with what I have now and for the whom I am now."
Sunday 31 July 2011
Saturday 30 July 2011
Successfully brighten my blog
Added some gadget to my blog. It enlighten the blog and also my mood. I simply love the swinging bird. I guess I would put that in my business blog too.
Apparently I hate cat super duper much but the glittering cat are so glitter that I don't hate it at all. However, only to this glittering, I still hate the non-glittering cats. I should think of other stuffs to be placed into my blog so that it looks nice and appealing just like 'five-star' graded dishes.
Apparently I hate cat super duper much but the glittering cat are so glitter that I don't hate it at all. However, only to this glittering, I still hate the non-glittering cats. I should think of other stuffs to be placed into my blog so that it looks nice and appealing just like 'five-star' graded dishes.
Long weekends
Long weekends...
Monday is a public holiday for Melaka state therefore, I need not work on Monday. Normally I'm terrific when there's a long weekends but this time I'm rather calm. Maybe I've found the reason not to go out or maybe I've found a reason to stay at home. Previously I like to loiter outside but now I prefer to stay at home watching drama, shows. I predict this is a good sign because less outing, less cash outflow then I can realise my dream sooner.
Another good news is, I manage to turn my biological clock back. I manage to sleep early every night. It is good to sleep early. Skin and organs got full rest and recovery so that our body looks healthy and vibrant. But another thing I'm lacking is lack of exercise. The last time I went for exercise is pretty long ago. I think it is the time for me to buy a gadget and exercise at home. Everything consume money. Just hope that I could get a job soon so that I could buy everything that I wanted. :)
Monday is a public holiday for Melaka state therefore, I need not work on Monday. Normally I'm terrific when there's a long weekends but this time I'm rather calm. Maybe I've found the reason not to go out or maybe I've found a reason to stay at home. Previously I like to loiter outside but now I prefer to stay at home watching drama, shows. I predict this is a good sign because less outing, less cash outflow then I can realise my dream sooner.
Another good news is, I manage to turn my biological clock back. I manage to sleep early every night. It is good to sleep early. Skin and organs got full rest and recovery so that our body looks healthy and vibrant. But another thing I'm lacking is lack of exercise. The last time I went for exercise is pretty long ago. I think it is the time for me to buy a gadget and exercise at home. Everything consume money. Just hope that I could get a job soon so that I could buy everything that I wanted. :)
Wednesday 27 July 2011
Haunted by Dream
What is dream exactly?
What does dream means to our live in present or in future?
Does it reflect or predict future or the past?
I don't have good sleep almost everyday. I'm haunted by my own dream. I would dream on unhappy things which would make me feel sad. And those sad feelings will accompany me for the rest of the day as the picture and conversation in the dream kept repeating in my mind like a broken radio. The images kept repeating till the dark of the day and those images will be replaced with new images of the dream of the following day. I totally have no idea why dream exists. I'm feeling tough defeating the power of dream and defeating my own feelings. I'm getting lethargic.
What does dream means to our live in present or in future?
Does it reflect or predict future or the past?
I don't have good sleep almost everyday. I'm haunted by my own dream. I would dream on unhappy things which would make me feel sad. And those sad feelings will accompany me for the rest of the day as the picture and conversation in the dream kept repeating in my mind like a broken radio. The images kept repeating till the dark of the day and those images will be replaced with new images of the dream of the following day. I totally have no idea why dream exists. I'm feeling tough defeating the power of dream and defeating my own feelings. I'm getting lethargic.
Sunday 24 July 2011
Sunday
It's SUNDAY!!!!
Everyone would want to have a long and lazy sleep on Sunday because it's an official holiday for us, over the east coast Malaysia expect for Kedah and Perlis. Many of us from Southern and Central region are not aware that several Malay states in Malaysia's weekend is on Friday and Saturday instead of Saturday and Sunday.
Do I have a long and lazy sleep last night? My answer would be....NO!
WHY??
I got up early to go to temple for praying. I loved to pray. But the hassle and bustle of traffic in jonker make my journey so miserable. I nearly lost in that area as I'm not really familiar with the narrow and short road over there. Maybe it is fated and obligates me to pray. Eventually I found a rather strategic spot of parking. Praying all by myself, is another funny story. I've no idea on the methods of praying and the protocols of praying. Funny story begins:
1. I asked the seller of praying materials " What should I buy to pray for dead person?" The seller looked at me with fallen jaws, and replied "Are you referring to your ancestor?" In my mind was like, "Holy shit!How can the earth I just uttered the word 'dead person' in front of a person who's alive."
2. When I wanted to burn the papers for dead person, several people just said, "Excuse me" so I'm being pushed away and I spend nearly 10-15 min burning those papers. A normal person would have taken at most 5.
3. I've no idea that I cannot keep the food for praying before I've burn those papers. So I spend another 15 min waiting for the coins to be in opposite side. The fact is if I don't burn those papers first the coins will not be in opposite side even though I waited a whole day long.
I'd just realised that I'm like the clown in the temple. I just hope the goddess will forgive me for my clumsiness and my carelessness.
Everyone would want to have a long and lazy sleep on Sunday because it's an official holiday for us, over the east coast Malaysia expect for Kedah and Perlis. Many of us from Southern and Central region are not aware that several Malay states in Malaysia's weekend is on Friday and Saturday instead of Saturday and Sunday.
Do I have a long and lazy sleep last night? My answer would be....NO!
WHY??
I got up early to go to temple for praying. I loved to pray. But the hassle and bustle of traffic in jonker make my journey so miserable. I nearly lost in that area as I'm not really familiar with the narrow and short road over there. Maybe it is fated and obligates me to pray. Eventually I found a rather strategic spot of parking. Praying all by myself, is another funny story. I've no idea on the methods of praying and the protocols of praying. Funny story begins:
1. I asked the seller of praying materials " What should I buy to pray for dead person?" The seller looked at me with fallen jaws, and replied "Are you referring to your ancestor?" In my mind was like, "Holy shit!How can the earth I just uttered the word 'dead person' in front of a person who's alive."
2. When I wanted to burn the papers for dead person, several people just said, "Excuse me" so I'm being pushed away and I spend nearly 10-15 min burning those papers. A normal person would have taken at most 5.
3. I've no idea that I cannot keep the food for praying before I've burn those papers. So I spend another 15 min waiting for the coins to be in opposite side. The fact is if I don't burn those papers first the coins will not be in opposite side even though I waited a whole day long.
I'd just realised that I'm like the clown in the temple. I just hope the goddess will forgive me for my clumsiness and my carelessness.
Friday 22 July 2011
Employment/Unemployment
XXX!
Facing dilemma once again...
I have a job currently but the pay is relatively low. I'm 22 now and I would like to count on myself to work and study but there're too many voices saying that "You need not do that!" I feel they are not being caring but they are being sarcastic. This is a transition point for me being an adult. There're just too many obstacles I'm facing since the date I completed my studies.
I got an interview from Segi College, keep my fingers crossed I just hope it will be a good news. I placed tonnes of hope in it. This interview means a lot for me. If I manage to pass through it then my future is rather secured. It is a credit to my future. I've nothing to hope. I just hope that I can get the job and start my new life. Upon receiving the interview call, I'm delighted but in the same time I'm afraid of disappointment also. I'm afraid that my knowledge and ability is just not good enough for them. Keep my fingers crossed, pray hard to God. It is once fated again!
Facing dilemma once again...
I have a job currently but the pay is relatively low. I'm 22 now and I would like to count on myself to work and study but there're too many voices saying that "You need not do that!" I feel they are not being caring but they are being sarcastic. This is a transition point for me being an adult. There're just too many obstacles I'm facing since the date I completed my studies.
I got an interview from Segi College, keep my fingers crossed I just hope it will be a good news. I placed tonnes of hope in it. This interview means a lot for me. If I manage to pass through it then my future is rather secured. It is a credit to my future. I've nothing to hope. I just hope that I can get the job and start my new life. Upon receiving the interview call, I'm delighted but in the same time I'm afraid of disappointment also. I'm afraid that my knowledge and ability is just not good enough for them. Keep my fingers crossed, pray hard to God. It is once fated again!
Thursday 21 July 2011
21 July 2011
Today is 21 July 2011.
Every month of the 21, I would be extremely happy. It is weird for a person to have such a preference. I love the day of 21 because I'm born on the 21 of November. When it comes to 21 December, I would feel a little sad because I've just past my birthday a month. After then, I would hope the following 21 to come soon. I love October 21 most because in a month it will be my birthday. However, the day I afraid most is on November 21. This is because it is my actual date of birth. I'm reluctant to have a great and happy birthday celebration because I'm afraid of disappointment or despair to happen next.
What a weird and funny occurrence!This world is full of variety and mixtures of colours. There're different kinds of people with different faces, colours and sizes. So does habits and attitudes. I dare not classify myself to be special, I would just assume I'm weird. To be more simple, I'm a coward because I tend to hide.
Every month of the 21, I would be extremely happy. It is weird for a person to have such a preference. I love the day of 21 because I'm born on the 21 of November. When it comes to 21 December, I would feel a little sad because I've just past my birthday a month. After then, I would hope the following 21 to come soon. I love October 21 most because in a month it will be my birthday. However, the day I afraid most is on November 21. This is because it is my actual date of birth. I'm reluctant to have a great and happy birthday celebration because I'm afraid of disappointment or despair to happen next.
What a weird and funny occurrence!This world is full of variety and mixtures of colours. There're different kinds of people with different faces, colours and sizes. So does habits and attitudes. I dare not classify myself to be special, I would just assume I'm weird. To be more simple, I'm a coward because I tend to hide.
Friday 15 July 2011
New banner
I've added a new banner into the blog.
Writings is the banner is meaningful. The only imperfectness is the size of banner. It is so small and petite. I've chose rainbow as the background for the seven colours in rainbow. Not every colours would favour you rainbow, but the different colours in rainbow shows the different stage and occurance of life.
The sayings "Believe you can and you're half way there" is very inspirational and motivational. Believe is something very supernatural. When you believe you can do it, then most of the time you can success with the believe you holding on.
The strength in holding on is the price you pay for success. The higher price you pay, the greater your success will be. So do not give up on the current doings and do not upset for the current cloudy and rainy days because after the rainy and cloudy days there will be a bright and sunny day. Even if rain does not stop, even if it may flood but flood definitely will over someday. It is the matter of time that would lead us to a better place and with new prospect.
Writings is the banner is meaningful. The only imperfectness is the size of banner. It is so small and petite. I've chose rainbow as the background for the seven colours in rainbow. Not every colours would favour you rainbow, but the different colours in rainbow shows the different stage and occurance of life.
The sayings "Believe you can and you're half way there" is very inspirational and motivational. Believe is something very supernatural. When you believe you can do it, then most of the time you can success with the believe you holding on.
The strength in holding on is the price you pay for success. The higher price you pay, the greater your success will be. So do not give up on the current doings and do not upset for the current cloudy and rainy days because after the rainy and cloudy days there will be a bright and sunny day. Even if rain does not stop, even if it may flood but flood definitely will over someday. It is the matter of time that would lead us to a better place and with new prospect.
Thursday 14 July 2011
"Vitality shows in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over"
It is a quote found on http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes_of_the_day.html by F. Scott Fitzgerald.
I've no idea who he is, but the saying is rather meaningful and real. When one could not and do not have the motivation to bear with the existing condition, then one should consider to let go and start over again.
Often, one might be too comfortable and used to the existing condition thus one persist in that condition. One is afraid of changes. Changes do not seem to be negative always, it can be positive however it takes time. Give yourself some time and give the nature some time. When you look back changes are not that evil and unfamiliar.
Time is rather evil element in life. When you have happy days, time passes very fast. On the other hand, when you have rainy and sad days, time passes very slow. Busy people will fuss that 24 hours a days is just not enough. School children desired for time to past quickly because they wanted freedom and hate schooling. In order not letting time control the emotion of us, it is better for us to be friends with time. We should enjoy every moment of life regardless we feel happy, sour, sad, dark, cloudy, moody or frustrated. The ability to stay positive every moment is the key to utmost your life.
I've no idea who he is, but the saying is rather meaningful and real. When one could not and do not have the motivation to bear with the existing condition, then one should consider to let go and start over again.
Often, one might be too comfortable and used to the existing condition thus one persist in that condition. One is afraid of changes. Changes do not seem to be negative always, it can be positive however it takes time. Give yourself some time and give the nature some time. When you look back changes are not that evil and unfamiliar.
Time is rather evil element in life. When you have happy days, time passes very fast. On the other hand, when you have rainy and sad days, time passes very slow. Busy people will fuss that 24 hours a days is just not enough. School children desired for time to past quickly because they wanted freedom and hate schooling. In order not letting time control the emotion of us, it is better for us to be friends with time. We should enjoy every moment of life regardless we feel happy, sour, sad, dark, cloudy, moody or frustrated. The ability to stay positive every moment is the key to utmost your life.
Sunday 10 July 2011
Elise Lariel
Elise Lariel is not my real name but I've used this name for almost five years. Few know this name as me, but many don't. At first I'm reluctant to use this name in my reality life, but as time passes I felt in love with this name and decided to use this name for the rest of my life :)
I'm back in my blog. One person would definitely happy because previously he waited long for my blog, but I doubt he will because I'm changing the way of writing. I used to write on food and places but now I write on my opinions, myself and life. I'm contented with the things I own currently and would remain positive in my life.
Peace :)
I'm back in my blog. One person would definitely happy because previously he waited long for my blog, but I doubt he will because I'm changing the way of writing. I used to write on food and places but now I write on my opinions, myself and life. I'm contented with the things I own currently and would remain positive in my life.
Peace :)
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